we are not responsible for what people do to us, but we take full responsibility of how we react
For decades, the theory on whether a person’s personalities are fixed is still a subject of today’s society. Well, this is just a theory for all it is. Away with this theory, and let’s face some serious questions here: Do you believe your personalities are fixed, and there’s nothing you can do about it? If you are one of those who have bought into this piece, here’s an alert: The Law of Attraction dissolves this all. Later, I will take some time, in another post maybe, to talk more about the law of attraction. In this video, I show how we are ultimately responsible about how we react to the world around us. You have heard people say, we are not responsible for what people do to us, but we take full responsibility of how we react. This is true! I’m not a believer of that fixed-personality theory for I have seen people walk away from their drug addiction and sex addiction problems; I have seen people walk away from envy and jealousy to a life free of these negative grips. I am keen on personality here because personality and intelligence work closely. Personality and intelligence have direct proportions. If a person is considered to have a timid personality, chances are that person is less likely to be intelligent.
In my own life, I failed to do the things I most admire, but make up excuses to justify my laziness to people. And you know laziness craves for contentment and satisfaction like crazy. It wants things to go easy and just fine. This is how our intelligence is measured; by what we do about our weaknesses, which also measure the scale of our personalities.